Some Thoughts on “Personal Branding”
June 19, 2011
When I was about thirteen years old, my father gave me some advice. I don’t remember what led up to it other than he and I were in the car returning home from an errand. Since I have three siblings and Dad worked out of town, it was rare to get that one-on-one father/daughter time. I’m sure his intention was to warn me against boys, but what I took from this advice was so much bigger. He said, “You only get one reputation, and once you’ve ruined it, that’s it.” Of course, that’s probably not a direct quote, but it’s pretty close.
At thirteen, I was an awkward, nerdy, tom-boy who took ballet. Boys were not interested in me, so Dad had nothing to fear. Still, the advice resonated and kept me out of trouble later in life. It’s good to be concerned about how others perceive you to a degree. Never let fear of ridicule keep you from doing the right thing, but you should consider your reputation before doing anything rash.
We’ve seen some pretty dramatic examples of this in the news recently, but you don’t have to be a politician with a funny name to be concerned that your actions online may have an adverse effect on your reputation. Most web savvy people know that once you post something online it’s there forever, or at least a digital shadow of it remains even if deleted. If you’re planning on inviting friends, coworkers, professional contacts or potential employers to follow you on twitter, friend you on facebook, or link with you on LinkedIn, then you should be sure that you post only what you would want them to see, or in the case of facebook, block them from seeing those party photos that might cause concern. In fact, it’s really safe to assume that nothing posted online is truly private or secret with the ability to copy and paste available to everyone.
There’s even more to personal branding than just caution on the web. You really have to walk the walk in your everyday life. People can spot a fake from a mile away, and often they’ll tell the online world when they do.
So what is personal branding anyway? A brand is defined in several ways. For the purpose of this discussion, it is “a kind or variety of something distinguished by some distinctive characteristic.” The idea of personal branding is relatively new and pertains to the fact that as a professional, you want to make a name for yourself by standing out in a good way.
Think about the brands you love: Coke, Gap, Apple, Sony, etc. They stand out in a good way. They represent a quality product in your mind. You’ve developed an affinity for them and would choose them over competitors. Personal branding takes that idea and applies it to one person: yourself. Who you are and who you present yourself as to the world should be one in the same. Any place your name appears online should honestly reflect you as a person. Ideally.
In reality, we are all flawed because we are all human. We are all unique and complex because we are all human. What personal branding does is try to highlight our best aspects while ignoring or glossing over our worst. Maybe instead we should use it to see ourselves in an objective, realistic light and challenge ourselves to become the people we are presenting ourselves to be.
Your personal brand = your reputation. Live up to it and protect it, so you are able to promote it when necessary.
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